Dear Abby: Nephew on rebound with a gold digger

Dear Abby After their th anniversary dinner my nephew Will was blindsided when his wife informed that she had never loved him and has been in love with her stepbrother since her teens Will had supported her fully and gladly She sought to be a stay-at-home mother he makes good money This hurt him terribly Will has met another woman on Facebook Dating and they ve been seeing each other for a sparse months She s a certified nursing assistant and is now wearing a huge diamond ring from Will She constantly posts statements on Facebook about what she wants Cruises are her main desire The previous 24 hours she posted that she s looking forward to three of them I don t know what CNAs earn but she has several adult children with kids she spends a lot of time with and posts pictures of outings This is good but I m afraid she has targeted Will as he was hurting from being blindsided Is there a tactful way to caution him to be careful so he doesn t get used again Concerned Auntie in Florida Dear Auntie I may sound like a broken record but there is a reason why folks are advised to wait a year before making vital decisions after a death In your nephew s event the death of his marriage would qualify Giving a woman he has known only a short time the Rock of Gibraltar for her ring finger seems a bit premature It would not be wrong to mention to your nephew that before he makes any lifelong promises to anyone it s major he have premarital counseling as well as discuss drawing up a prenuptial agreement with his attorney The counsel he is using for his divorce could qualify Dear Abby I ve been married more than years You read it correctly This afternoon my husband came home and advised me our neighbors had invited him out to dinner to thank him for helping them with their yard work on the previous day Usually I m at work in the afternoon but at present was my day off When I questioned him if I was included he stated No Just me I felt bad but didn t show it My husband came home a minimal hours later and began talking to our adult son about their evening as if I wasn t there When I demanded why he didn t tell them I was home and would ve come along his response was I KNEW you would somehow make it my fault that you didn t come I informed him it didn t look right that he was tagging along while his wife was left behind Am I overreacting Mrs Left Out Dear Mrs Left Out Your neighbors were wrong to invite your husband out and exclude you But what happened after that makes me wonder if something more is wrong in your relationship with your husband I KNEW you would make it my fault etc If this is a symptom of a larger trouble you and your husband should discuss it with the help of a marriage and family therapist Your specialist or fitness insurance company can refer you Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren also known as Jeanne Phillips and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips Contact Dear Abby at www DearAbby com or P O Box Los Angeles CA